Brain Top Off!

Just been dumped? Want to know how to win her back? Start with cutting off all contact with your ex. Sounds silly, but works great.

No doubt you are feeling some serious emotional hurt right now. I bet emotional meltdown is right around the corner. You will get a double benefit by stopping any contact for a while.

First it will give you a bit of time to heal. A bit of time to get yourself emotionally in shape. It’s crucial to both you & the ‘win her back’ plan.

Going into anything in an unbalanced state will certainly kill any chances you have. If you are in control. You can handle any situation that crops up. You get to show how cool you are under fire.

Another benefit of cutting contact is your ex can’t fail to notice your absence. But she broke up with me you say. Why will she notice my absence? Well, there’s a well knowing saying…conspicuous by your absence.

If she only thinks about you because you aren’t there, at least she is still thinking about you. It’s better to be in their head just a little than not be in their head at all. When you pester and plead with her she has negative thoughts about you. When she thinks of your absence the thoughts are normally good.

How long do you kill the contact for? It’s hard to say exactly as everyone is different. I suppose 3 or 4 weeks is long enough as you don’t really want her to get into the routine of being single again.

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What do you do next then, after you get your head into shape? Another good question, and one I would answer with … Time to get a plan! A plan that you can easily follow all the way to the end.

You have a couple choices now. Try to win her back yourself. I wish you luck if you try it this way. Or make the smart move and use a system that’s proven to work.

It’s a fact, although a difficult one to believe, that there are methods such as this on the internet. Methods that have been used over and over for hundreds if not thousands of people. Systems that guide you through each and every step.

When I first came across a system like this I honestly thought it was total bull. Well, my skeptisism was blown out of the water. The top selling system has already managed to reunite over 6,000 couples from all over the world. This can’t be by chance alone!

You have a choice to try to win her back all by yourself. Or borrow the knowledge of others who have been there, done it & written the book! I don’t know about you but I know I would take the second route.

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Have you recently broke up and you’ve reached the conclusion you can’t live without her? If you need to know how to win her back then look no further than psychological mind games to help you on your way. I dare say some of your friends may look down on you using these tactics but they don’t count. What does count is you getting her back.

You don’t actively notice it but psychological mind games are in use every day. Governments, employers, even our friends and partners. A typical example is the employee of the month. Employers are using psychological mind games to increase production.

She returns your call without you even asking
This is how it goes. We nearly all love receiving letters, as long as they aren’t bills. So you write her a nice handwritten note and tell her you want to thank her. And tell her that things are good for you right now.

By doing this you raise 2 things in her. Curiosity & pride. She gets curios about the “thank you” bit, but then the pride takes over when she thinks she must have done something good. She will be curious enough to call you. She needs to know why you would thank her. Of course the reason you say is that the split has down you the world of good.

The real reason you sent the letter is to get her to contact you. Play your cards right here and she will forever think she got back in touch with you. After all, you never once asked her to call you in the letter. But the letter did its job and she called anyway.

You can get hold of the exact letter to send later. I’ll show you where. And some other tricks like this.

Use her favourite memories
By this I mean everyone has memories that are treasured, and these can be used for your advantage. If for instance you know what her all time fav song is, you can use this. Food and smells are good as well.

When she calls after you send the letter make sure she can just about hear her fav song in the background. Her subconscious then starts to link her favourite song with you, as those are the most recent memories of her hearing the song. She loves the song. She heard it while on the phone to you. Her subconscious links the nice feelings together.

Jealous curiosity
If you can arrange a night out with a few friends, be seen to be having fun. Also make sure that your ex finds out just what a good time you had.

As long as you aren’t dating another girl, she would be livid at this, you can make your ex just a little bit jealous at missing out on the fun. She will expect you to be still mourning her but here she finds you out & about enjoying yourself. She may well feel she wants to be part of the fun again like it used to be.

There you have three little psychological tricks to help you to win her back. Yes a few people will look down their nose at using them but they are harmless and no serious damage will be done. But you can’t just jump in and use these tactics without an overall plan.

You want to be putting these tips in as part of a bigger plan to win her back. You can screw the whole game up without a system to follow.

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