You don’t actively notice it but psychological mind games are in use every day. Governments, employers, even our friends and partners. A typical example is the employee of the month. Employers are using psychological mind games to increase production.

She returns your call without you even asking
This is how it goes. We nearly all love receiving letters, as long as they aren’t bills. So you write her a nice handwritten note and tell her you want to thank her. And tell her that things are good for you right now.

By doing this you raise 2 things in her. Curiosity & pride. She gets curios about the “thank you” bit, but then the pride takes over when she thinks she must have done something good. She will be curious enough to call you. She needs to know why you would thank her. Of course the reason you say is that the split has down you the world of good.

The real reason you sent the letter is to get her to contact you. Play your cards right here and she will forever think she got back in touch with you. After all, you never once asked her to call you in the letter. But the letter did its job and she called anyway.

You can get hold of the exact letter to send later. I’ll show you where. And some other tricks like this.

Use her favourite memories
By this I mean everyone has memories that are treasured, and these can be used for your advantage. If for instance you know what her all time fav song is, you can use this. Food and smells are good as well.

When she calls after you send the letter make sure she can just about hear her fav song in the background. Her subconscious then starts to link her favourite song with you, as those are the most recent memories of her hearing the song. She loves the song. She heard it while on the phone to you. Her subconscious links the nice feelings together.

Jealous curiosity
If you can arrange a night out with a few friends, be seen to be having fun. Also make sure that your ex finds out just what a good time you had.

As long as you aren’t dating another girl, she would be livid at this, you can make your ex just a little bit jealous at missing out on the fun. She will expect you to be still mourning her but here she finds you out & about enjoying yourself. She may well feel she wants to be part of the fun again like it used to be.

There you have three little psychological tricks to help you to win her back. Yes a few people will look down their nose at using them but they are harmless and no serious damage will be done. But you can’t just jump in and use these tactics without an overall plan.

You want to be putting these tips in as part of a bigger plan to win her back. You can screw the whole game up without a system to follow.

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Go it alone

Well, what can I say about this. Going it alone. Good luck with that one.

In all seriousness, if you had the skills to put this situation right. You’d probably not be in this mess in the first place. But I suppose anything is worth a try once.

Just how exactly are you going to approach this problem? I’m no expert but I can’t see how I would approach my ex if we had a bust up. It stands to reason that they are not going to want to see sight or sound of you for a long while.

You chance of a successful reunion with this method? Zero to almost zero.

Employing a tried & tested “system”

What do you mean by a “system”? A proven “system” that lays out everything you need to do, step by step. Are you, or the system, for real?

Well, one of them has testimonials from over 6,000 couples (yes, six thousand) that claim to have used the system to get back together. I reckon faking those numbers would be nigh on impossible. But, you just never know!

How does it work? Well, it lays out everything you should do in easy to follow steps from sorting your head out (after first being dumped). Right through to getting your ex back and more.

You learn how to safely get in contact with your ex again but with a slight quirk to it. It shows you how to manipulate the situation so that your ex calls you, not you calling them. It gives you plenty of little psychological tactics to stack the deck in your favour.

You get instruction on everything you need to get your ex back. From what to do when your ex calls. To what to do to get them out on a date again with you.

Truth is, if you get your ex on a date with you it’s mission complete. It’s your call though. Try to get your ex back by going it alone. I wish you luck.

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Yes it’s going to be hard work to save your relationship but the rewards will be worth it. Especially if you both silently realise it shouldn’t be over. Check out these three things as they might help you get your relationship back on track.

1 – Back to the very beginning

Who, or what did you fall in love with? Think about that. And just what was it about you that they fell for? It’s easy to forget these things when you settle into the hum drum routine of a long term relationship.

When you first got together you work hard being the person they fell for. You need to recreate that person. You need to rediscover the person that your ex (or partner) first fell in love with.

2 – You need attraction to each other

Attraction is the driving force behind all loving relationships. Like magnets, you can either attract or repel your partner. If you aren’t attractive to them you will push them away sooner rather than later.

Being attracted to someone doesn’t just mean liking the way they look, or finding them sexy. You could easily be attracted to your partners’ sense of humour or self confidence. Pinpoint what it was that attracted them to you and recreate it.

3 – Good communication

Communicating is important when you are trying to rescue your relationship. But don’t overdo it. The majority of us shy away from confrontation and possible hurt. Don’t make your ex suffer this hurt. Keep any conversations light-hearted.

Remember the good conversations you used to have in the early days, you need to recreate them. It was those early conversations that brought you both closer. You can go a long way to saving your relationship by recreating those conversations with your ex (or partner).

Relationship rescue 101

Seems easy enough on paper right? It’s when we come to do something about it where we hit a brick wall. A lot of people lack the confidence to actually take action, and sadly end up doing nothing. I’ve been there & done that, or not done it as is the case here. Not having the confidence to go forward will kill any chance you had to make things up.

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